What is success
What is success. The definition success, in Webster’s dictionary, “the accomplishment of an aim or purpose”. Why do we want to succeed, and at what particular task or goal are we trying to succeed at. Are our goals and dreams our own or are we trying to succeed at something that is not congruent with our values and wants?
I have only had some limited success in life. A large part of being successful is being able to put your self out there and take chances. Playing it safe, and living a meek life will not allow you the opportunities to be in the right place at the right time when opportunity strikes.
How to be successful
How to increase your chances of success anyways? I would say the most important predictor of being successful is someone who is willing to fail over and over again, and keep on persevering. A person who is open to experiences and someone who willing to meet new people and put themselves in uncomfortable situations.
Now you might say, “hold on, I’m an introvert, there is no way I am going to be able to put myself out there”. To that response, I would say “bullshit”. Anyone can change the way they behave if they are determined enough. It takes modifying your behavior one small step at a time. For example, instead of spending quiet time alone at home, you join a Zoom meeting for writers interested in writing their memoirs.
Success takes persistent dogged determination. But it doesn’t have to be a grind. You can work on what you are trying to accomplish one small step at a time.
Why strive for success?
I would say that the best reason I have for striving to become better person than you were yesterday is the simple reason that I like to improve. , others might have other motivations for success: respect, money, adoration. The source for what motivates an individual to strive for success can be vast.
Regret could be one of the biggest motivators. Life is short, and the more you wait to accomplish your goals, the less chance will have time to complete what you set out to accomplish.
Along with success comes the rewards: money, accolades, respect from others. Many strive for success for the material gains in life. In America, if you are a success, you are revered. To be successful to many is all that there is to be gained in life.
Is there a downside to success?
There are two sides to a coin, when pursuing your dreams. There is always the chance that things will not work out, no matter how much time and energy is put into the endeavor, however, usually with persistence, the odds of realizing ones dreams increase.
To pursue success and achieve ones goals, a significant amount of time usually needs to be dedicated. If someone has a family, it is often times that family time is sacrificed in order to make more time for ones endeavors. Someone can be a success in finance, but at the same time be a complete failure as a father. There is a price to success, in many situations.
Should I pursue success?
When success it is not the end goal to someones aspirations but a byproduct of someone’s dreams, anything is possible. Like the artist who cannot stop painting. Sure, they had dreams of being famous from time to time, but the true source of their success was their undying desire to create art and share with the world their creations.
When success doesn’t poison the well, but instead spurs someone on, encouraging them to create, explore, connect and grow, I believe that is when success is realized